A very interesting series by the Wichita Eagle recently described various scenarios of diet sabotage that might be attempted by our family and friends over the holidays. And although the stress of the holidays–as well as forced interaction with loved ones we typically try to avoid–can create additional pressures around food and diet, these types of sabotage attempts can happen all year long.
Basic diet sabotage usually occurs in one of two ways: Either someone is pressuring you to eat a food that is not part of your healthy eating plan, or someone is encouraging you to skip a workout.
Diet saboteurs take all shapes and forms. It might be a loved one–like your mother–or a co-worker. It might be your spouse, your best friend, the aunt you haven’t seen in years, or your child.
And the reasons they’re pressuring you may vary, too. Some may simply equate food with love. Others may assume you dislike exercise, and they think laziness should be your reward for your hard work. And still others may be jealous of your weight loss success, and they’re subconsciously trying to push you toward failure.
Here are some common diet sabotage statements you might hear:
• Come on, one piece of pie won’t hurt you.
• You’ve been working so hard that you deserve a break.
• Is it going to kill you to skip one workout?
• It’s just a small treat. What’s wrong with that?
• You need to have some joy in your life.
• You’ve lost enough weight. It’s time to relax.
• This is the holidays! (Or your birthday or your anniversary or your graduation…)
• You can eat this now and just exercise harder tomorrow.
• You need to have a glass of champagne to celebrate!
So what should you do? First, analyze the reason you’re resisting. There’s nothing wrong with indulging occasionally or missing a workout every once in a while. If you really want that nibble of brownie, or if you’d rather spend time with family than go to the gym, just do it! One sweet treat or one missed workout won’t totally derail all the success you’ve accomplished.
However, if you want to do your workout because it gives you energy, or if you would prefer to save your calories for the pumpkin pie instead of the brownie, try one of these basic responses:
• Everything was so delicious, but I just can’t eat another bite.
• Sorry, I’m the designated driver.
• My workout gives me the energy boost I need.
• I can’t eat anything else right now, but I’d love to take some home with me.
• My diet choices aren’t just for weight loss. They’re for my health, too.
• My doctor says I should avoid extra sugar/fat/salt.
• My workouts bring me lots of joy and peace.
• I can’t skip my workout. I’m training for a 5k/marathon/triathlon.
• The meal was such a special treat that I don’t need any dessert.